A language for sex, lesson #4

Positions, drawings of positions, dreams of positions.

This lesson is all about positions and the meanings associated with them. The basic idea for the name of a position is that it should reflect the body part in contact with the ground. For example, the standing position is sat which means foot and lying on the belly is bo for … belly.

E — to be

A position is therefore both a shape that our bodies must take and a mental and emotional attitude. It is important to highlight that taking the body shape always implies taking the mind and heart attitudes as well. There is no physical shape without the proper presence and mindset unless another mindset is applied with Ei in which case we have a body shape and another mindset. For example, you can be lying on your belly (the bo position) and you have to feel the active, genitals breathing and very sexual attitude of the kneeling position with legs wide open (Ei moon om).

E bo e ei moon om

Note: her, the second e means and so this translates to be the belly position and the open bosom attitude.

A note on breathing

Now that we have a vague understanding of how the philosophy behind postures, let’s discover some vocabulary. In this list, you will encounter some words that you already know but repeating is good.

Vocabulary

Sat — foot

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e sat

Pronounced [sæt] as in “satin”. This is the neutral, standing position. The attitude associated with this position is waiting without any expectation. The attitude Ei sat can be used to say do less and relax. This is also a verb, just like ma (hand). So if you remember your previous lesson, Olir sato pal means We will kick your butt with our feet (please make sure consent implies kicking before trying this at home 😅). You can also say more gentle things like Sati bo, caress my belly with your feet.

Fen — knee

We can also add the om (open) adjective in which case the knees are spread apart. So to summarise, here are some variants for the fen position:

  • E fen, kneeling, legs together, the butt sitting on the legs (judo sitting position: see picture below).
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e fen
  • E fenol, kneeling, legs together, body tall (church praying position).
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e fenol
  • E fen om, same as e fen but with legs open (gives access to genitals).
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e fenol
  • E fenol om, same as e fenol but with knees separated (access to genitals from the back).
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e fenol om

bo — belly

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moon — bosom

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e moon

Conclusion

Have fun taking positions and attitudes 🌸 !

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